Tag: shifting focus
“Coughing up” My Latest Post…
Hi, all. I’m back from the depths (again).
This little fella has been giving me a hard time for the past month or so. Living in North Carolina during the spring sure is pretty, but it SUCKS for those of us with highly-reactive sinuses and lungs.
When I can’t type because I drip all over the keyboard, or the ink from my pen starts to mix with post nasal drip to create “art on paper,” I know I need to surrender for a while…
But this week, I loaded the “big guns” and am fighting back with more meds than I’d really like to have in my system, but hey – it’s starting to do the trick.
So, the oxygen level’s starting to climb, the snot’s less-snotty, and the drips are less-drippy. And I’m feeling like writing again. Yay!
So, please stay tuned for some interesting stories.
There’s the one about a desk named Flossie…
and fishing in the cemetery pond.
See ya soon!
All of a Piece
Today was International Women’s Day. A good friend of mine (and an amazing writer) shared her submission to the book, Letters for My Little Sister.
It’s about the “M” word, ladies… I think you’ll love this. I know I did.
Apologies for the shaky start to the video… I’ll go ahead and blame it on the menopause!
A Brief New Year’s Vent, Please…
I have been a horrible blogger… dropped off the face of the Internet for a while now, but I had what I felt were valid reasons — two stepkids (12 and 15, Goddess help me) who have been increasingly, erm, “challenging,” shall we say?
I vowed to start the new year off on a positive direction, seeing only the good in things, and it was working for a while… until someone rear-ended our CR-V last night. Keep in mind this is also the same CR-V that had an unfortunate encounter with a jaywalking 5-pointer on Interstate 40 at about 1:30am a month or so ago. The body shop’s gonna luuuurve us. Okay, the positive? No human was harmed in these collisions.
I understand that tomorrow is supposed to be the coldest day so far for the winter — dropping down to about ten degrees. The boy (15) has been asked SEVERAL times if the heavy-duty winter coat (that he refuses to wear because “it won’t fit in his locker at school”) still fits him. Mumbles that it does each time, or at least I think that’s how the incoherent sounds translate. So, tonight, when we do a trial run to see if he even knows how to put the damn thing on… behold… his arms are sticking out of the sleeves an extra two to three inches.
If I had a pair of Hello Kitty mittens, I’d make him wear them, just for spite. Oh, he’s gonna wear that thing, and it’s gonna fit in that locker like a charm…
I have lots of things I want to write about — my trip today to a new (and willing to actually talk to me about menopause!) doctor, the shamanic journey I had done the other day, and a few things I’m hoping to accomplish this year.
But right now, I either need a really strong drink or a full scholarship to a bootcamp for fifteen-year-olds…far, far away.
Oh, the horror…
Star-Spangled… Me?
When I was young, I spent lots of time at Granny’s house. She was a career public school music teacher and, after retirement, taught voice and piano privately. Even had a “musical kindergarten” called Rhythm Band. In her small town, everyone knew her as the spunky, creative… and slightly nutty… lady who brought joy and beautiful music – and a bit of the unexpected – to nearly every holiday gathering in town.
Aside from Christmas… and Halloween… and Valentine’s Day… well, hell, she loved every holiday, who am I kidding? It seemed that July 4, 1976, was a challenge for her. She went nuts, decorating EVERYTHING in sight with red, white, and blue, and honing up on her piano versions of all things patriotic. It was insane but really amusing to watch.
Tonight, thumbing through a box of old photos, I came across one that truly represented just how geared up she was for our 200th birthday celebration. Okay, so let’s build a giant birthday cake out of boxes, wipe out the local dollar store of its miniature flags, stick the thing in the back yard, and get the oldest grandkid to dress up like Uncle Sam to pose for pictures.
Geez, the other two grandkids were BOYS, for crap’s sake! At least she didn’t make me wear a beard. Well, they were only about four and two at the time… they weren’t tall enough to peer over the top layer yet.
Yep, that’s me. Nine years old. The curse of being the oldest was always serving as “guinea pig” for photo shoots like this. I think she secretly enjoyed this – thank goodness she never showed it to any of my friends. Ugh.
Truth is, this year, I would have given my left, er, ovary, to have climbed up on that damn cake, listening to her direct with more finesse than a Hollywood producer, “Now, wave the flags and smile, Leigh,” as she snapped the photo. I would have sung every patriotic song I knew, if it would have meant a little more time with her.
Well, except for that awful “God Bless the USA” song. Forgive me — if you were subjected to that song as often as I was as a kid, you’d feel the same way. Seriously, you would. (Sorry, Granny.)
July 4, or any holiday for that matter, doesn’t quite have the same sparkle as it did when she was in charge of making them fabulous.